असक्ितरनभिष्वङ्गः पुत्रदारगृहादिषु।नित्यं च समचित्तत्वमिष्टानिष्टोपपत्तिषु।।13.10।।
asaktir anabhiṣhvaṅgaḥ putra-dāra-gṛihādiṣhu nityaṁ cha sama-chittatvam iṣhṭāniṣhṭopapattiṣhu
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Sanskrit to English Translation
A Reading - Rantideb
Why: non-attachment, non-identification with son, wife, home, and so forth, and constant equanimity in desirable and undesirable events, continuing the list with a specific, pointed example, family attachment, as one of the areas requiring real work.
In life: attachment to family and home is one of the deepest, most natural human bonds, and this verse is not dismissing its value, but naming the specific work of holding even that bond without losing your own steadiness.
Teaching: notice your own reactivity specifically around family and home matters, that's named here as one of the harder, more advanced areas of practice, not a sign something's wrong if it's difficult.