यत्तु प्रत्युपकारार्थं फलमुद्दिश्य वा पुनः।दीयते च परिक्लिष्टं तद्दानं राजसं स्मृतम्।।17.21।।
yat tu pratyupakārārthaṁ phalam uddiśhya vā punaḥ dīyate cha parikliṣhṭaṁ tad dānaṁ rājasaṁ smṛitam
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Sanskrit to English Translation
A Reading - Rantideb
Why: but that gift given with the expectation of a return favor, or looking for a reward, or given reluctantly, is regarded as being of the nature of passion, naming reluctant or transactional giving as belonging to the more restless, self-interested quality even when the outward gift is identical in size.
In life: reluctant giving, or giving with a clear expectation of something back, is a genuinely different act than giving freely, even when the outward gift given is exactly the same in every visible respect.
Teaching: notice the next time you give something reluctantly or with a clear expectation attached, and be honest with yourself that this is a meaningfully different act than free giving, even though it may look identical to an outside observer.