आत्मौपम्येन सर्वत्र समं पश्यति योऽर्जुन। सुखं वा यदि वा दुःखं सः योगी परमो मतः।।6.32।।
ātmaupamyena sarvatra samaṁ paśhyati yo ’rjuna sukhaṁ vā yadi vā duḥkhaṁ sa yogī paramo mataḥ
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A Reading - Rantideb
Why: one who sees the pleasure and pain of all beings as equal to their own, through the yoga of sameness, is considered the highest yogi, extending equanimity specifically to genuine empathy for others' suffering, not just your own composure.
In life: real empathy means someone else's pain actually registering to you with something like the weight your own pain would carry, not polite, distant concern.
Teaching: notice the gap between how seriously you take your own discomfort and how seriously you take a stranger's equivalent discomfort, and work on closing that gap.